"I'm Deborah Guy—executive coach, fear mastery specialist, and founder of Grounded Leadership™.
I was handpicked by a Fortune 100 Chairman to direct their executive coaching program. I've worked with leaders across industries and continents. But the most important decision I ever made had nothing to do with a title.
At 38, I walked away from a career that looked like success to build a life that actually felt like mine. It was the first time I trusted myself more than I trusted my fear.
That's the work I do now. Whether you're navigating a career transition, preparing for a bigger leadership role, or ready to stop abandoning yourself in the moments that matter—I help ambitious professionals move through fear, not around it.
The result? You stop performing confidence and start actually living from it."
On the outside everything looks fine - but on the Inside, you know somethings got to Give.
I help driven people who are discovering that what got you here may now be working against you. Whether you're building a career, leading a team, or rebuilding your life—if you're caught in overthinking, avoidance, or pushing through when you should be pausing—we should talk."
Let's Connect
→ Ask yourself: What noise have you been trying to lead through?
Name the real obstacles. Fear doesn't always look like fear—it shows up as overthinking, avoidance, imposter syndrome, or burnout. Together, we'll identify what's underneath these patterns and reclaim your power to lead with courage.
→ Ask yourself: Which of these patterns feels most familiar right now?
Build sustainable systems. Leadership requires more than good intentions. We'll create the habits, systems, and internal alignment that support your growth without burning you out.
→ Ask yourself: What would change if you trusted your own judgment completely?
Practice brave leadership. Not fearless—that's impossible. But the kind of courage that moves forward even when fear is present, making decisions from your values rather than your anxieties.
→ Ask yourself: What would you do if you knew you couldn't fail?
What we Do Together
Something's gotta shift—you can feel it.
You want to stop second-guessing yourself in the moments that matter. You want clarity about what's actually holding you back—instead of managing around the same patterns for another year. You want to make decisions from your values, not your anxiety. And you want to finally trust yourself as much as everyone else seems to trust you.
Whether that shows up as a career breakthrough or a personal one—the work is the same.
Let's have a Real Conversation
For Individuals Ready to Transform.
For people ready to stop managing around fear and start living from their actual power. This isn't therapy. It's the deep, practical work of fear mastery, identity, and self-trust.
We address the patterns underneath the patterns: self-sabotage, imposter syndrome, emotional reactivity, and the quiet ways you've been abandoning yourself.
You don't need a title or a team to do this work. You just need to be ready.
Investment: Premium tier, Same structure as Executive Coaching. Application Required.
PERSONAL BREAKTHROUGH COACHING
Create the Life Your Soul Intended
Ways that we work together
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Limited availability, by application only.
For leaders in significant career transitions who need real-time support navigating communication breakdowns, self-doubt, leadership blind spots, and role adjustments. This is where your external ambitions meet internal capacity.
This isn't about fixing what's "wrong" with you—nothing is. This is about building the internal leadership capacity that matches your external ambitions. I witness the leader and the life you say you want—and hold you accountable for achieving it.
Investment: Premium tier, pay-as-you-go. No long-term contracts because your growth shouldn't feel like another obligation.
This work is by application only. Not because it's exclusive, but because it requires readiness for strategic intervention—not formulaic programs.
Strategic Intervention for Leaders in Transition
EXECUTIVE COACHING
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Cohort Based, Community Supported.
In an age where AI can handle technical tasks with increasing sophistication, the leaders who thrive aren't the ones with the most advanced tools—they're the ones with the most developed human skills.
Emotional intelligence isn't a "soft skill" anymore. It's your competitive advantage.
Build emotional intelligence and self-regulation under pressure in a community setting. This isn't a "starter option"—it's an essential foundation for sustainable leadership growth in an era where human connection, trust-building, and emotional leadership separate those who advance from those who plateau.
The Grounded Leadership™ Group serves dual purposes:
- Entry path for leaders building foundational skills before or instead of private coaching
- Reinforcement system for leaders maintaining momentum and practicing what they've learned
What you'll develop:
- Recognition of fear-based patterns in real-time
- Self-regulation techniques under pressure
- Courage-based decision making
- Emotional leadership capacity that AI can't replicate
- Community accountability
Investment: Accessible tier, cohort-based. Space is limited to maintain group intimacy and coaching quality.
Essential Foundation for Emotionally Intelligent Leadership
GROUNDED LEADERSHIP™ GROUP
Cohort Based, Community Supported.
Technical expertise got you here. What's next requires a different kind of leadership.
As AI automates more technical functions, your value as a leader shifts from what you can do to how you can lead. The leaders who thrive aren't fighting the disruption—they're developing the distinctly human capacities that AI can't replicate: strategic thinking, team trust-building, emotional intelligence, and the courage to lead through uncertainty.
The Scout to Sage Framework helps IT leaders navigate this shift—moving from reactive problem-solver (Scout) to strategic visionary (Sage). This specialized approach addresses both the strategic challenges of transformation and the fear-based obstacles that show up during massive change.
This framework is for IT leaders who:
- Are preparing for or adjusting to expanded leadership responsibility
- Need to lead teams through significant technological transformation
- Face increasing pressure to be strategic, not just technical
- Recognize that emotional intelligence is now their competitive advantage
The work blends Grounded Leadership™ principles with IT-specific challenges, helping you lead the transformation—not just manage the technology.
For IT Leaders Navigating Industry Disruption
SCOUT TO SAGE FRAMEWORK
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Let's have a conversation
Most leadership development focuses on what to do. This is Grounded Leadership™—an approach that focuses on what's stopping you from doing it.
Because here's the truth: You already know more than you think you do.
The challenge isn't lacking information—it's navigating the fear that comes with stepping into bigger leadership, making bolder moves, and trusting yourself in new territory.
As a certified fear mastery coach with 25+ years of experience helping leaders break through their invisible barriers, I don't just help you identify what's holding you back. I help you develop the internal resources to move through it—again and again.
What if you could lead without managing fear?
I stand as a witness for the leader you're becoming. A partner in building the personal foundation that supports sustainable success. And a champion for your growth, especially when your own inner critic gets loud.
This work changes careers. But more importantly, it changes how you experience your own life.
a note about our
Conversation
- Whether we're a good fit to work together
- Which pathway best serves where you are right now (Personal breakthrough? Leadership coaching? The Group? Scout to Sage?)
- What success would actually look like for you
You'll get a sense of my approach, I'll get a sense of where you're headed, and together we'll decide on the right next step—even if that's not working together.
If I'm not the right fit, I'll gladly point you toward someone who is. If another path serves you better right now, I'll tell you that too.
Let's Talk
I will NEVER spam. share, or sell your personal information - D.
Let's find out what makes sense for You.
Not every offering serves every goal. Let's figure out which path fits where you are right now.
This conversation helps us both get clear.
Clarity starts with a real conversation.
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A 45-minute conversation about where you are and where you want to be and which approach will get you there—no pressure, no pitch.
STRATEGY CALL PREP GUIDE
I'll send this to you when you book your call—so you can show up clear, focused, and ready to get the most from our conversation.
It's a short reflection tool that helps you articulate what matters most before we talk.
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Organizations where I've coached leaders ready to lead from their strengths, not their fears.
